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Why discernment?

by Rev. Dr. Jim Antal, Minister and President

December 2008/January 2009

I recently caught up with a friend who leads a prominent Jewish organization.  When he asked how I was doing, I told him I was working on what I’d be saying at our Annual Meeting, and that we’d be discussing discernment as an alternative to Robert’s Rules in how our congregations approach decision making. 

Now I certainly did not expect what happened next.  This very bright guy began to smile, and you could almost see all the lights going on in his mind, and he leaned forward and said, “Really... now that’s fascinating! Why discernment?”

I gave him a very condensed version of what we’ve been talking about in the Conference.  It went something like this: Robert’s Rules honors the conscience of individuals and protects personal points of view.  These rules seek to maintain order by assuring that it is safe to express divergent views.  And when it comes time for a decision, every participant counts equally.  It’s also true that, because this approach locates conscience in the individual, a likely outcome is that after a decisive vote, there are winners and losers. 

I’m sure I’m not the only one who knows people who remain angry about a decision on which they were outvoted decades ago.  They can’t let it go because they feel their church (of all places) violated their conscience.

Then I told my friend that as Christians, we believe that “where two or three are gathered,” there’s something else going on.  We believe that the Holy Spirit is present in our midst.  Not only that, but when two or three (or two hundred or even six hundred) are gathered to make an important decision, figuring out the direction God is calling is critical.

What really got his attention is when I said that God is not only present in the conscience of each individual.  God is present in the gathered community.  God is present in the “in-between-ness” of how we listen to one another and how we share our diverse views; how we honor one another, and take time to hear each person out.  If all you do is add up how God is speaking to each individual through his or her conscience, you have failed to account for God’s full presence.  God’s compelling call within and to the community is far more than the sum of all the whispers of God’s voice in each person’s conscience.

Robert’s Rules takes over a quarter of a million words to outline the conditions under which order can be maintained so that individual conscience can be safely protected, fairly expressed and accurately tallied.

In contrast, the book of Acts uses just under 24,000 words – one tenth as many – to illustrate how the early church calls upon the presence of the Holy Spirit to guide it through the most divisive challenges the church has ever faced.  The Book of Acts – as well as the rest of the New Testament – can be read as a testimony to how a community of faith orders its life so that the Holy Spirit will guide its way forward.  And as Martin has reminded (or perhaps taught) us – this was also the approach taken by our 17th century forebears in the faith. 

Something special happens when a faith community begins to call upon the power of the Holy Spirit.  As it does so, the community begins to deepen its understanding of what it means to be a community, and as it strengthens its identity as a community, the Holy Spirit is present in a more full and compelling fashion.